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The Spoiling Session: raunchy sex Exercise For Couples

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  What Is A Spoiling Session? A spoiling session is a magical, sexy, multi-purpose exercise that allows you to gain a deeper understanding of your own sexual needs and the sexual needs of your partner, while simultaneously reconnecting you as a couple and melting away the subtle shame and resistance that each partner may or may not have towards sex in general. How Do You Carry Out A Spoiling Session? Spoiling sessions are quite simple. And as you can imagine from their name, are about sexually spoiling yourselves (and therefore each other). A spoiling session is a pre-determined amount of time where one partner (the recipient) gets to have whatever they want done to them/on them/for them, as long as those things fall within the realm of comfort for the giving partner. For example, one partner’s spoiling session could look like the following… “For sixty minutes, every Tuesday night, sometime after 5pm, I will lay on my back while my favorite music plays throughout the room, and my p...

Can More Non-Sexual Touch with Your Partner Help You Last Longer?

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  When working on premature ejaculation, most guys focus on solo practice, edging, or physical control during sex. But here’s a factor that often gets overlooked — Does spending time on non-sexual touch with your partner help reduce PE? Let’s explore how things like cuddling, massages, or casual touch might ease performance pressure and help you better manage arousal when it really matters. Why Non-Sexual Intimacy Might Help with PE Reduces Performance Anxiety:  If your only physical touch with your partner leads straight to sex, it can build pressure around every intimate moment. Normalizes Touch Without Immediate Arousal:  Regular non-sexual physical closeness helps your body and mind get used to intimacy without triggering an automatic spike in arousal. Improves Comfort and Emotional Connection:  Feeling safe, relaxed, and emotionally connected before sex lowers your baseline nervousness, making it easier to control climax. Teaches Your Body to Stay Calm Around St...