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The Chocolate Cake Theory & How to use it in your sex life

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If you were to ask a room full of people to list their favorite food, chances are that a lot of them would choose chocolate cake. Chocolate cake is yummy stuff, and chocolate cake lovers exist in huge numbers. But, if you took anyone who said that chocolate cake was their all-time favorite food and you forced them to eat nothing but chocolate cake forever, they would not be very happy at all. Chocolate cake is only special because you don’t eat it all the time. It tastes better than the other stuff you eat, but you don’t want to stop eating the other stuff. If you did, chocolate cake would no longer be special. It would no longer taste “better” because it would simply be the only thing you ever taste. You need the variety of tastes in order to have some that you like more than others. You need choices so you can compare one taste to another. Eat something that tastes bad, then eat chocolate cake, and the chocolate cake will taste even better. That same principle applies to sex. I have ...

This how to start being sexually dominant as a woman!

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The mistake that so many women make when exploring how to become dominant is that they think they need to make drastic, massive changes in their attitude and actions. Thankfully this isn’t the case at all. In fact, if you suddenly change your attitude, you may even freak your man out, which is obviously not the goal at all. So what kinds of steps can you take to slowly become more dominant? Try initiating:   Kiss your man when he’s not expecting it. Run your hand up and down his thigh to let him know what you’re thinking about. Take him by the hand and lead him somewhere private, then start unbuckling his belt. Push him down onto your bed.  Try some ‘women on top’ sex positions ..  Gently bite his lip. Start with the easier things and you’ll quickly notice how easy & fun it is! Tell him that you want to try something new:  You could pin his arms and tie him to the bed. You could handcuff his hands behind his back and then  ‘have your way with him’ by giving ...